How Does Mediation Work?
The mediator's role is to assist couples to discuss their problems together in an open and co-operative atmosphere, that allows balanced and productive discussion to take place. The mediators establish ground rules so that each person can express their point of view.
Each mediation session may last up to 1½ hours. Three or four sessions may be needed depending on the complexity of the issues involved in your situation, and the time needed to make important decisions.
Do I Still Need A Solicitor?
Mediators do not give legal advice and do not represent individuals. They are there to help both of you work out a plan for the future as a couple and/or as parents who will be leading separate lives. When proposals are finalised by the couple, a summary is drawn up by the mediator(s) which each of the couple can then take to their own solicitor with whom it can be discussed and, if desired, made into a legally binding agreement. We encourage each client to seek advice from their own solicitor (free to those in receipt of legal aid for mediation) at any stage of the process should they wish to do so.
How Much Does It Cost?
Mediation is free to all those whose means make them eligible for Mediation Legal Assistance. Some clients also receive free advice from their own solicitor alongside mediation and the cost of making proposals legally binding is also free. For people who do not qualify, an hourly charge will be made. However, mediation can help reduce the need for length discussions with solicitors, and expensive court proceedings, as problems can be ironed out in a safe and controlled environment without the need to refer matters to court.
Will Mediation Help Me?
Mediation is not for everyone, nor is it a ‘soft option’. To enable you to find out more about the mediation process, it is usual to have an ‘intake’ meeting with a mediator prior to mediation, either together as a couple or separately, as you choose. The purpose of an intake meeting is to provide you with further information, gather details about your circumstances and assess with you whether mediation would be helpful in your case. Solicitors are able to provide us with basic information about your situation in advance of such meetings by completing our referral form, with your assistance.
Please Note: Mediation Session Posed By actors.
Children
For parents who choose mediation, separate confidential appointments can be offered to their children with a Children's Resource Worker. The consent of children and both parents is required beforehand. It affords an opportunity for a child to express how they view their changed life circumstances, views that can be different to those held by either of their parents.
Further Information
If you would like to know more about the mediation process, the costs involved and what we can offer you, contact the DFMA here using our (confidential) web form. You may also find our links and books section helpful.
